Jenny is taking the first step to matrimony
Friends & family join in the auspicious ceremony
While marriage may still be many months away
Anticipation is sure to build night and day!

Jenny, you will always have our blessings
Let me share with you some of my learnings
It’s not that I have practiced what I am preaching
Yet, I do know you will benefit from my teaching!

I is a word that’s too corrosive
Mine is a word that’s too possessive
Let go of these self-centered notions
We  & Us evoke the right emotions

Money doesn’t always buy happiness
Strong character is the key to all riches
The more you’d give the more you’d get
Remember the good deeds, rest you must forget

Differences will surely arise, it’s only natural
How you deal with them will serve you well
It’s not required to be always right
Life is not a win or lose fight!

You don’t have to get your way all the time
But, standing your ground is also not a crime
However, don’t hold any grudges for long
By letting go of your ego you become strong

Extend a hand when one is down
Smile always, no need to frown
Share riches with less fortunate
Be accommodating, not obstinate

As you get ready for life together
Admonish negativity forever
Unconditional love only, make a pledge
Anything less is sure to create a wedge

Treat others, as you’d like to be treated
Greet others, as you’d like to be greeted
Follow your mom and dad, they are the best
I know them well, I can certainly attest

Remember, life is a journey, not a destination
Savor every step; enjoy all of God’s creation
May your life be filled with all the happiness!
May you be strong to admonish petty selfishness

Your uncle, Ashok

@ a niece’s engagement (Rochester NY, April 2006)